Overcoming their challenges with video
Kristen knew she wanted a wedding film but Josh, a private guy, was nervous at first about hiring wedding videographer.
They had come to the right place as we often help grooms-to-be conquer the insurmountable feeling of being overwhelmed by the presence of cameras on their wedding day. It’s more common than you’d think. We get it and we make sure that doesn’t happen.
We worked with Kristen and Josh, talking about important boundaries and techniques on how to be invisible in their presence.
And in no time, a level of reassurance and comfort was established. It was on!
Before the wedding
Having texted every day since June 20, 2013—let me tell you, these two best friends could not be more excited to share the rest of their lives together.
What Josh and Kristen looked forward to the most (besides being married) was having fun celebrating with our friends and family while expressing themselves with a classic & stylish wedding at Wychmere. (And it was getting close to go time!)
Their first look at Wychmere’s Overlook [see it at the 1:11 mark]
There’s a lot to be said for the tradition of not seeing each other until you come down the aisle but we think that first looks are incredibly special. They release a lot of pressure for couples who are private and feeling overwhelmed by all the attention.
And it was the perfect choice for them.
Their first look was at Wychmere’s overlook (aptly named for how it overlooks Wychmere Harbor). And after that big moment, Kristen checks in with Josh to make sure he’s OK (knowing how much he hates being in front of the camera).
Josh was all smiles though.
Their ceremony on the Grande Lawn overlooking the canal [10:07]
With a 6′ lace train on her wedding gown, Kristen’s processional was one of the most gorgeous we’ve seen. And their large wedding party of 16 attendants made the walk just as gracefully.
As sailboat glided by in the canal next to their wedding, Kristen and Josh said their vows and became husband and wife.
Their officiant, Faith Lavender, told the story of their love and what Kristen and Josh love most about each other.
Kristen said of Josh that he has an unmatched passion for learning, loves that he’s constantly curious, easy going fun to be around and someone you can rely on. Has brought balance to her life taught her to be more patient and adventurous and he’s her best friend.
Josh said that Kristen keeps him in check when I get to be a little overconfident, and helps to hold me up when I need it. We are each other’s sounding boards and help each other to make decisions. She is always herself and never tries to anyone or anything other than that.
As they took their vows, Kirsten’s voice shook as she held back tears of happiness. But that quickly changed to laughter as she had a hard time getting the ring on his finger that has become swollen in the summer heat. [see it at 8:11]
They had both married the loves of their lives and were complete with each other.
Cocktail Hour in Wychmere’s Hydrangea Room
All kinds of delicacies were served to guests in the Hydrangea Room. And guests mingled on brick patio as they began the celebration.
Scenic photos with friends were taken on the dock by the canal while Josh, Kristen, and their crew had their professional photo session out on the boardwalk leading out to Wychmere’s private beach.
And finally it was time for the big celebration with family and friends.
Wedding Reception in Wychmere’s Harbor Room
(times for their must see moments are in the description)
Kristen’s MOH’s toast was everything you could ever want it to be. [3:03]
And Josh’s best man broke down in tears as he toasted to the bride and groom, saying how grateful he was that his best friend was marrying the love of his life and they all knew it was forever the moment they first met. [11:31]
The greatest dance party with the help of Wilson Steve’s Band, Eye 2 Eye. The group passed a GoPro around to capture off the cuff, candid moments of themselves having the time of their lives on the dance floor.
The night was special and incredible all rolled into one. Exactly how they envisioned.
Thank you for choosing us to film your outdoor wedding at Wychmere Beach Club
Kristen & Josh, thank you so much for letting us capture your best day ever. It was an honor being part of your love story. We wish you all the happiness the world has to offer!
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I’m so glad you made it down to the bottom!
I can tell you’re a person who’s excited about their wedding and loves wedding videos…
And because you did, I have a feeling you might be someone who is getting married on Cape Cod because you, too, have a special connection here. And you want your wedding film to be a true representation of your big day. The ceremony, the party, Cape Cod—all of it. Because it’s important
If that sound right—Sean and I invite you to get in touch with us and tell us what your vision is for you big day. We’d love to support your ideas and create a gorgeous film for you to pass down through the generations.
